Make long lasting resolutions with a help from graphology! It’s that time of the year again when you take stock of your life, reflect on your shortcomings and pledge to start afresh from the 1st of January! While there are some most genuine resolutions made on the new-year, these are also the most ‘broken’ resolutions! From vowing to implement a healthier lifestyle to giving more of ourselves to our kith and kin, our resolutions are like indicators set by our morality so as to embark on a path that will be worthy for us. As per Psychologists roughly 50% of people make resolutions every year which are predominantly based on weight loss, to begin exercise, quit smoking and improve their money management. Alas, a few months into the New Year, most of these are broken, due to several reasons, leading us back to where we started! And the struggle begins again!
Why do Resolutions fail?
Resolutions are a system of cultural closure, an attempt to revive oneself. People make resolutions as a way of motivating themselves. Having said, people aren’t ready to change their habits, particularly bad habits, and that accounts for the high failure rate. Making resolutions work, involves changing behaviors and in order to change a behavior, you have to change your thinking. When goals are set, we are to make them specific and time-bound. But it turns out that those characteristics are precisely the reasons goals can fail. A specific, time-bound goal drives behavior that’s narrowly focused and often leads to either cheating or myopia. Yes, we frequently achieve the goal, but at what price?
How can Graphology analysis and changing your handwriting help?
Graphology can detect and set an alarm prior to you setting the resolution. For example:
- Checking if your handwriting is larger than usual. In that case, your ‘characters’ do not support your consideration to resolutions.
- People with many friends often display a need to be loved and appreciated, which is reflected in their handwriting. Such people hate to be tied down to resolutions that require monotonous repetition because they cannot stay focused.
- People who have big handwriting do not worry about small things. They are quick to leave behind unpleasant experiences and get on with life. This would explain giving little importance to a small but significant change in life that was their resolution but then they simply didn’t find it meaningful enough to hold on.
Changing the way you write can change your approach to life. Graphology is a proven science that can express the current thought pattern of a person by the way they present their writings. It’s not the written matter; it’s the handwriting that needs to be read.
The way to change is not merely to compel oneself to follow the resolution. Instead, a small graphology exercise on focus can help bring about the change! Every morning as soon as you wake up, make a habit of practicing to write a little something, giving heavy pressure on the paper. This needs to be done first thing in the morning, before you get involved reading the newspaper or responding to notifications on your smartphone. This will tremendously help improving focus and will help one to put a lot of thought into every action and increase your concentration.
New Year resolutions can be done every year at the beginning but this graphology exercise is done for certain term, one can develop their thought and design accordingly, hence taming quality of life. One noble habit is superior than a verbal resolution.
Do think about it and implement it.
Mr.Vinit Bansode
